So I’ve known this guy for 3 or 4 years now and we instantly became friends. We eventually became best friends which leads me up to now. He and I are best friends and we have been for almost 3 years nothing more and I’ve never thought of him as anything else until the last couple of mouths. I think he is cute, funny, nice, goofy, a dork, and near irresistible i feel really weird when im with him because we talk about the girls he likes and stuff so i always feel awkward. Sometimes we have conversations with out even talking just alot of eye contact and hand touching. I kinda feel like we’re dating sometimes because he lets me lay my head in his lap well i dont know how to explain it but i know he doesnt like me more than a friend but i know i like him more than a friend i dont know what to do. Any thoughts?
What you do is move on. The friend zone really sucks, and I’m sorry that you have to go through this. But even if you are close friends, if he doesn’t recognize all that you have to offer in a real relationship, stop trying to make him an option! Do your own thing; perhaps part of this is you being too available for him!
If you don’t wanna cut him out of your life completely and abruptly, maybe try talking to him. But never let anyone- and I repeat ANYONE- have their cake and eat it too. He needs to earn your affection, trust, and loyalty just as you would earn his.